My selection of adult toys—chosen for you, not by an algorithm

For her, for him, for both of you

Intimate toys are no longer what they were ten years ago. The range is vast, materials have evolved, and so have the ways they are used. Here’s how I structure my selection so you can quickly find what suits you.

For her

Women make up a large part of my customer base, and their needs are very diverse. For a first experience, I often recommend a compact vibrator made of medical-grade silicone: discreet, versatile, and easy to handle. For those looking for more targeted stimulation, the clitoral stimulator using pressure waves has become essential—it’s probably the sex toy that has revolutionized female pleasure the most in recent years. And for exploring internal stimulation, the dildo remains a safe bet, available in dozens of shapes, sizes, and materials.

My selection for her also includes connected vibrating eggs, geisha balls, and rabbit vibrators (dual stimulation). Each product comes with my personal note to help you choose.

For him

Men are entitled to their adult toys too, and it’s a subject I discuss without taboos. A masturbator—whether realistic, compact, or connected—offers sensations that the hand alone cannot reproduce. For those interested in anal exploration, the anal plug is a gentle, gradual introduction to new sensations. And for those who want to take things further with technology, connected sex toys controlled via an app open up truly impressive possibilities for long-distance play.

My selection for men also includes prostate stimulators, vibrating cock rings, and interactive masturbators for those curious about the latest generation.

For both of you

Shared pleasure is often where intimate toys truly come into their own. A connected vibrating egg that one partner controls while the other wears it. A couples’ vibrator for simultaneous stimulation. Erotic accessories such as BDSM gear for exploring power play together with complete trust. And, of course, lingerie—because setting the scene is part of the pleasure.

For couples just starting to explore, I often recommend beginning with a simple, versatile toy and then progressing together. I’m here to guide you every step of the way. 💬

How do you choose your first adult toy?

It’s the question I’m asked most often, and I understand why. Faced with such a wide selection, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Here are the three criteria I systematically rely on when helping a beginner.

1. Material comes first

I always recommend starting with an adult toy made of medical-grade silicone. It’s the benchmark material: non-porous, and therefore hygienic; soft to the touch; compatible with most water-based lubricants; and durable. Avoid inexpensive materials such as jelly or PVC, which may contain endocrine disruptors and are difficult to disinfect properly. A good first sex toy made of medical-grade silicone doesn’t have to be expensive—it just needs to be safe.

2. Size: start small, really

For a first intimate toy, the ideal size is often smaller than you might imagine. A compact vibrator, a size S anal plug, or a discreet clitoral stimulator—the goal is to discover what you enjoy without discomfort. You can always move up later. I always recommend starting with something easy to handle, which you can control easily with one hand.

3. Intensity: less is more at first

Many adult toys for beginners offer several vibration or intensity levels. That’s a good thing: start at the lowest setting and increase gradually. Your body needs time to adjust to new sensations. A first sex toy with 3 to 5 intensity levels is more than enough to explore. There’s no need to go straight for the most powerful model in the catalog—unless you already know what you’re looking for, in which case I’m here to point you in the right direction. 💬

Why choose Adopt1Toy instead of a marketplace?

It’s a fair question, and I’ll answer it honestly.

Human selection, not an algorithm

On a large marketplace, any seller can list any product. The result: thousands of items with no quality control, questionable materials, and copy-and-pasted descriptions. Here, every sex toy in my online erotic boutique has been selected by me. I know the brands, I know what really works and what is overhyped. My selection is intentionally focused—because too much choice can be paralyzing, and because I only sell what I would recommend to a friend.

Personalized advice on WhatsApp

And yes, I give advice personally on WhatsApp—not an AI, not a chatbot, and not a contact form that takes three days to reply. 💬 Do you have a question about an intimate accessory, are you unsure whether a product is suitable for your situation, or do you want to compare two models? Write to me. I’ll respond with the same care I offered when I had a physical shop. That’s the real difference with a human-run love shop.

Complete discretion, from A to Z

📦 Neutral packaging: no mention of the contents and no explicit logo on the parcel. 🚚 Delivery to your usual address or to a pickup point, according to your preference. 🔒 Discreet billing: the description on your bank statement reveals nothing about your purchase. I know that discretion isn’t a minor detail—it’s often the essential condition for taking the plunge. So I take it very seriously.