I Was Like You – eBook & Sexuality Guidance

I was just like you • Alicia & Steven

Start with the book, or choose to receive support.

The same world, but several ways to move forward. The eBook lets you read, understand and reflect at your own pace. If you need conversation, perspective or ongoing support, the three support options already include the book.

Discover the eBook – €9.90 View the 3 support options

4 ways to move forward

Choose based on what you need today

You can start independently with the eBook or choose support. Declic provides a framework with four appointments. The 14- and 30-day support options allow you to go further over time, with exchanges tailored to what you are really experiencing.

Self-guided

eBook only

9,90 €

To get started without an appointment and move forward at your own pace.

PDF + EPUB
16 illustrated chapters
More than 25,000 words
Practical 30-day pathway
Read alone or together

View the eBook

Structured framework

Declic pathway

99 €

So you don't have to rely on a single conversation and can move forward in four steps.

Complete eBook included
4 30-minute appointments
Video call or phone
Alicia or Steven depending on the situation
Understand, try, debrief, adjust

Choose Declic

Targeted support

14-day support

249 €

To try different approaches and come back with what is really happening.

Complete eBook included
14 days of personalized support
WhatsApp, messaging, phone or video call
Solo or couple
€100 Adopt1Toy credit included

Choose 14 days

Most comprehensive

30-day support

349 €

To take the time to understand, try things out and adjust without rushing anything.

Complete eBook included
30 days of personalized support
WhatsApp, messaging, phone or video call
Alicia + Steven’s perspective if useful
€150 in Adopt1Toy credit included

Choose 30 days

Key point: if you order support, you don’t need to buy the eBook separately: it is already included in all three plans.

What’s included	eBook	Déclic	14 days	30 days
PDF + EPUB eBook	✓	✓	✓	✓
Appointment	—	4 × 30 min	As needed	As needed
Support between conversations	—	—	14 days	30 days
Possible as a couple	Read together	Depending on the situation	✓	✓
Adopt1Toy credit	—	—	100 €	150 €
Price	9,90 €	99 €	249 €	349 €

No miracle formula, no therapist role.

The aim is to help you put simple words to your situation, to take a step back and find practical guidance suited to your reality. You can come with a specific question or simply with the feeling of feeling stuck without knowing exactly why.

The support is based on hands-on experience, listening and education about sexuality. They do not replace medical or psychological care, sexological or therapeutic.

Alicia’s perspective

Desire, confidence, body image, taboos, pleasure and female experiences.

Steven’s perspective

Couple, communication, misunderstandings and a complementary male perspective.

Confidential

You only share what you want and your conversations never become content without your consent.

The right level of support

If the eBook or Déclic is enough, there’s no reason to push you toward a more expensive option.

Still hesitating?

You can compare at your own pace, start with the eBook or write to us before ordering. The goal is simply to choose the option that feels right for you right now.

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Questions people ask me before getting started

Not at all. You can come with a very specific question, or simply with “I feel like something isn’t the way it used to be.” Part of our work is precisely to put words to what you’re feeling, sort through pressure, habits, communication, desire, trust, or circumstances, and then identify a concrete first step.

No. You can ask for help without being in crisis. Some people want to reconnect, while others want to better understand their desire, build confidence, communicate more easily, or prepare for a new stage in their relationship. Support can help you overcome difficulties, build something new, or explore more peacefully.

Yes. The 14-day and 30-day programs can be done alone or as a couple. We tailor our conversations to your situation and whatever makes you feel most comfortable.

Yes. If you’re considering your first experience in the swinging lifestyle—or simply thinking about exploring it as a couple—we can help you talk things through before taking the plunge: what each of you really wants, your boundaries, your relationship rules, your fears, any jealousy, communication, and how to respect each other’s pace. The goal is never to pressure you into trying it, but to help you determine whether this desire makes sense for both of you and under what conditions it could be explored peacefully.

No. Our support is based on our hands-on experience, listening, sexual health education, and practical guidance. It does not replace medical, psychological, sexological, or therapeutic care. If your situation requires a healthcare professional, we’ll tell you.

For the Déclic Program, we’ll contact you to arrange the first of four 30-minute sessions, choose between Alicia and Steven, and agree on the format—video call or phone. The following sessions are spaced out to give you time to try things, take stock, and then make adjustments. For the 14- and 30-day follow-ups, we’ll work with you to arrange the start and choose the communication channels best suited to your situation.

We handle conversations discreetly. We don’t publish your story or use your messages or experience as a testimonial without your consent. Depending on the channel you choose—WhatsApp, phone, or video call—the data is also subject to the terms of service of the service used.

Write to us before placing your order. Simply explain where you are and what you’d like to change. If the Déclic Program is enough, we won’t push you toward the 14- or 30-day options. And if you’d rather start on your own, the eBook is also available separately. The goal is to choose the level of support that truly makes sense for you.