You don’t need another coaching session. You need a real breakthrough.
Understand what’s holding you back. Rediscover your desires. Regain confidence in yourself and your sexuality.
There’s no one-size-fits-all method here: we start with you, your situation, and what you genuinely want to change.
Is this support really right for me?
You don’t need to have “a big problem” or know exactly how to explain what’s happening. We can start with a feeling, a question, or simply the desire for something to change.
Yes, it can help if…
- You feel there’s a block, but can’t quite put your finger on it.
- Your desire has changed and you no longer really understand how it works.
- You want to bring back a sense of connection or break out of a routine that has settled in.
- You find it difficult to say what you want, what you don’t want, or what you need.
- You want to get to know your body, desires, boundaries, and triggers better.
- You’ve already read articles or watched videos, but don’t know how to apply them to your situation.
- You need a space where you can talk freely, without embarrassment or judgment.
This isn’t the right option if…
- You’re looking for a medical or psychological diagnosis.
- You need therapeutic, psychiatric, or sexological care.
- Your situation involves pain, a symptom, acute trauma, or a health issue requiring a healthcare professional.
I prefer to be clear: I’m neither a doctor, psychologist, nor sexologist. My support is based on listening, hands-on experience, sex education, and practical guidance. If your situation falls outside this scope, I’ll tell you.
What you can really get out of it
The goal isn’t to accumulate even more theory. It’s to understand what’s happening for you and know what to do about it in practical terms.
Clarity
Put words to what you’re feeling and understand the mechanisms that may influence your desire, pleasure, or relationship.
Words to communicate
Express your desires, boundaries, frustrations, or needs more easily without turning every discussion into a conflict.
A sense of direction
Leave with guidance tailored to your situation rather than a list of generic advice found online.
Less pressure
Let go of the idea that you should feel desire “like before,” do what others do, or reach a standard that doesn’t exist.
Get to know yourself better
Identify what fuels your desire, what holds it back, what reassures you, and what genuinely makes you want to explore.
Take action
Test, adjust, and move forward with actions that are realistic for you, instead of staying stuck at the “I know, but I don’t do it” stage.
Not just another coaching program. Not a copy-and-paste method.
I’m not going to fit you into a one-size-fits-all program. A woman who no longer dares to initiate, a man who no longer understands his partner, a couple who have grown apart, or someone who is only just discovering what they like don’t all need the same thing.
We start with your reality. We understand it. We choose a direction. And, when the format allows, we revisit it to see what really works.
Why work with me, Alicia?
Because my approach doesn’t come from a title invented on Instagram. It comes above all from real-world experience, real questions, and real people.
Years spent listening to what people don’t always dare to say
I worked for several years in lingerie and in boutique retail, notably at Orcanta, Darjeeling, then Paradise Boutik. I advised thousands of women and men about their bodies, confidence, pleasure, products, and the questions we sometimes keep to ourselves for a long time.
Today, I continue this work with Adopt1Toy: I answer your questions myself, write my guides and articles, and above all, try to make these topics simple, accessible, and judgment-free.
And I won’t sell you a fake medical-expert status: I don’t have a degree in sexology, and I don’t claim to. My expertise comes from the field, shaped by experience, conversations, and years spent supporting very different people.
And what about Steven?
Because a different perspective can sometimes help move a conversation forward, Steven can also step in.
- For the Declic Program, you choose Alicia or Steven, and ideally we keep the same person as your contact throughout the 4 sessions.
- Over 14 or 30 days, Alicia remains your main point of contact.
- Steven can step in if his male perspective would add something to the situation.
- If you’re a man and would prefer to be supported mainly by Steven, that’s possible.
No rules about who you “should” talk to: we mainly choose the person you’ll feel most comfortable with.
Choose the option that meets your needs today
You can start on your own with the eBook, choose a four-appointment mini-program to work on a specific situation, or opt for 14 or 30 days of support. Everything is brought together on a single page: simply select the option that suits your needs.
eBook “I Was Just Like You”
“I want to start understanding and move forward at my own pace.”
Over 300 pages • digital access- Understand desire, pleasure and blocks
- Get to know your body, desires and boundaries better
- Communication, confidence, fantasies and relationships
- Practical approaches to help you take action
- Read it whenever you want, at your own pace
Declic Path – 4 appointments
“I have a specific situation and want to understand, try things out, take stock, then adjust.”
4 × 30 min • eBook included- Appointment 1: understand your situation and your goal
- Appointment 2: put practical approaches in place
- Appointment 3: review what you tried
- Appointment 4: adjust and move forward with a clear direction
- 2 hours of support in total, spread over time
- Video call or phone • Alicia or Steven, your choice
- No unlimited WhatsApp support between appointments
14-day support
“I want to move forward without being left alone with the questions that come up afterward.”
eBook + €100 Adopt1Toy credit included- 14 days of personalized support
- Alone or as a couple
- WhatsApp, messaging, phone or video call
- Alicia as your main point of contact
- Steven as additional support when his perspective is useful
- Advice tailored as you progress
- €100 credit to choose freely on Adopt1Toy
30-day support
“I want time to understand, try things out, come back to it and adjust.”
eBook + €150 Adopt1Toy credit included- 30 days of personalized support
- Alone or as a couple
- WhatsApp, messaging, phone or video call
- Alicia as your main point of contact
- Steven as an additional support or preferred point of contact for men who wish
- Time to try things out, take stock and adjust
- €150 credit to choose freely on Adopt1Toy
Can’t decide between the four options?
Here’s the simplest way to choose.
You want to start independently, understand what’s happening, and move forward at your own pace without one-on-one interaction.
You have a fairly specific issue and want several points of contact to understand, try things out, debrief, and adjust without needing daily support.
You want to go beyond scheduled appointments and be able to write to us throughout the days, try things out, come back with your questions, and adjust over two weeks.
You want to take the time to work on a broader situation, with enough perspective to test what really works in your life.
No forced basket
If a product could genuinely support what you want to explore, we can point you in the right direction. But we won’t push a sextoy or gift box on you just to fill a basket.
With the 14-day and 30-day support programs, the €100 and €150 credits leave you free to choose what suits you on Adopt1Toy. You can follow our recommendations, choose only some of them, or pick something else.
Would you rather have a ready-to-enjoy experience?
I’ve also created gift boxes designed as real experiences: so you don’t forget anything and have a coherent selection centered around a desire or a moment for two.
Discover Alicia’s Gift BoxesNot ready yet? Start for free.
I’d rather you start with a useful resource than book support “just to see.” If you recognize yourself in it and want to go further with your own situation, I’ll be here.
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Discover all the guides →Would you rather move forward independently with a guiding thread?
Discover the “I Was Like You” eBookQuestions people ask me before getting started
Is it therapy or a sexology consultation?
No. The support is based on our hands-on experience, listening, education around sexuality, and practical suggestions. It does not replace medical, psychological, sexological, or therapeutic care.
Can I come with my partner?
Yes. The 14- and 30-day support plans can be done alone or as a couple. Some conversations can also be arranged in the way that makes you feel most comfortable.
I’m a man: is the support also for me?
Yes. For the Déclic Journey, you can choose Alicia or Steven for all 4 appointments. For the 14- and 30-day support plans, Alicia is the main contact, but a man who would prefer to communicate mainly with Steven can request this.
I’m uncomfortable with video calls—is it mandatory?
No. The 4 appointments in the Déclic Journey can take place by video call or phone. For the 14- and 30-day support plans, we can use WhatsApp, messages, phone, or video call, whichever suits you best.
Will I have to buy additional products?
No. Product recommendations are only made when they make sense for your situation. The 14- and 30-day support plans include €100 and €150 of Adopt1Toy credit respectively, but the choice remains yours.
What happens after I place my order?
For the Déclic Journey, we’ll contact you to arrange the first appointment, choose Alicia or Steven, and agree on the format. The 3 following appointments are spaced out to give you time to try things between conversations. For the 14- and 30-day support plans, we’ll organize the start with you and choose the communication channels best suited to your situation.
What if I really don’t know which option to choose?
Write to us before ordering. Simply explain where you are and what you’d like to change: if the Déclic Journey is enough, we won’t push you toward 30 days.
You don’t need to arrive with all the answers.
You tell me where you are. We bring clarity to what’s happening. Then we choose a next step together that makes sense for you.
No one-size-fits-all method. No judgment. No product pushed just to fill your basket.
Adopt1Toy support services provide guidance and educational support around sexuality, desire, pleasure, and relationships. They do not constitute medical, psychological, therapeutic, or sexological services and do not replace the advice of a qualified healthcare professional when necessary.
Les questions qu’on me pose avant de commencer
Je ne sais pas exactement ce qui me bloque. Est-ce un problème ?
Est-ce réservé aux couples qui vont mal ?
Est-ce que je peux venir avec mon ou ma partenaire ?
Peut-on vous consulter pour parler de libertinage ?
Est-ce une thérapie ou une consultation de sexologie ?
Comment ça se passe après ma commande ?
