Vaginettes

The masturbator is a male masturbator whose opening replicates the shape of a vagina and whose internal channel features various textures to stimulate the penis. This is the most widespread and popular masturbator design — the one with which most men begin exploring male sex toys.

In summary: a masturbator is the classic masturbator with a vaginal opening. Textured internal channel (ridges, bumps, waves), compact or realistic design, made of TPE or silicone. Water-based lubricant required. A wide range of textures, from gentle to intense. It’s the first masturbator I recommend in my shop.

In my shop, masturbators account for half of my male masturbator sales. Their popularity comes down to three things: the realistic vaginal opening, which reassures beginners; the variety of internal textures, which helps you find your preference; and the handheld design, which gives you complete control over the pace and intensity.

How a masturbator works

Insert your penis into the internal channel after applying water-based lubricant. The back-and-forth motion stimulates the entire length of the penis through the internal textures. Pressure can be adjusted by squeezing the masturbator more or less firmly in your hand, or through an integrated suction system on certain models.

Masturbators: the different types

How to choose your masturbator

The internal texture

This is the deciding factor. Soft textures — gentle waves, a smooth channel — are suitable for beginners or sensitive men. More pronounced textures — bumps, deep ridges, tight spirals — offer more intense stimulation for experienced users. In my shop, I recommend starting with a medium texture and exploring from there.

The design

Rigid shell for beginners — the grip is more stable and control is easier. Flexible design for a more natural sensation. Realistic design for visual immersion.

Material

TPE for realism and flexibility — but it's porous (requires thorough cleaning). Silicone for hygiene and durability — but with a slightly different feel. Both require a water-based lubricant.

Canal size

The canal's diameter and length should match your size. A canal that's too tight is uncomfortable, while one that's too wide reduces stimulation. Models with an adjustable suction system let you adjust the pressure.

Stroker vs. automatic masturbator

A stroker is manual — your hand creates the back-and-forth motion. The automatic masturbator is motorized and produces the movement on its own. A stroker gives you complete control over the rhythm, speed, and pressure. An automatic masturbator offers constant movement without fatigue. Both have their place — many of my customers have both.

Who is the stroker for?

For everyone — it's the most universal format. Beginners discovering masturbators almost always start with a stroker. Experienced users return to it for the manual control it offers. In a couple, a partner can use the stroker on the penis, adding a shared playful dimension.

Among the brands I recommend, Satisfyer offers accessible strokers with good internal textures. Tenga is the benchmark for male masturbators, with a very wide range of textures and formats.

A stroker is also an excellent gift — for Valentine's Day, a birthday, or simply to introduce a partner to male sex toys. Choose a model with a firm shell and moderate texture for a first gift — it's the most accessible and least intimidating format.

Common mistakes

• Choose a texture that's too intense for beginners. Start moderately — you can increase the intensity afterward.
• Forget the lubricant. Always required, in sufficient quantity.
• Neglect cleaning. The internal canal must be cleaned and dried after every use with a cleaner.
• Store it without drying it. Moisture inside the canal encourages mold and bacteria.

Care and hygiene

Rinse the channel with lukewarm water, clean it with sex-toy cleaner, and dry the inside completely. Apply renewal powder if the TPE becomes sticky. The intimate hygiene guide and the penis guide explain best practices in detail.

My experience with strokers in store

In 10 years of advising customers, the stroker remains the masturbator I sell most. Its strength is its versatility — it suits everyone, from complete beginners to experienced users. Beginners choose a soft texture with a rigid shell for stability. Experienced users increase the texture intensity or move on to adult-film-star formats for greater realism.

My number-one tip for a first stroker: choose a moderate internal texture. If it's too soft, it won't provide enough stimulation. If it's too intense, it can be uncomfortable. The middle ground gives you the best starting point for discovering what you like.

Using a stroker as a couple

A stroker isn't just for solo play. As a couple, your partner can use it on your penis during foreplay — it's a shared control game that many of my customers enjoy. Some transparent models add a visual dimension that enhances the experience for both of you.

Leading stroker brands

Tenga is the ultimate benchmark brand for male masturbators — its range covers every intensity level and format. Satisfyer offers affordable strokers with good value for money. For realistic molds, specialized brands like Fleshlight offer a very wide selection. In store, I often recommend starting with a Tenga for its high-quality texture and easy maintenance.

Going further

Explore oral masturbators for the sensation of fellatio, anal masturbators for a tighter channel, and automatic masturbators for motorized back-and-forth motion. Masturbation eggs offer a compact, single-use format. The guide to your first sex toy will help if this is your first purchase. This collection is part of the For Him range.