Calexotics Scandal red dildo harness

I recommend Scandal, a pegging set by Calexotics that combines a red open-back harness panty with an ergonomic silicone anal dildo measuring approximately 12.8 cm. Designed for role reversal between two partners, it focuses on simplicity: no complicated straps to adjust, just a stretchy panty to pull on.

Silicone for the dildo, fabric for the harness

The dildo is made of silicone, with an insertable diameter of 2.5 cm: a moderate size suitable for those starting out with pegging. Its ergonomic shape makes it easy to hold when guiding penetration. The panty combines a soft, plush interior with a durable fabric exterior featuring a bold design, and stretches to adapt to the body. A reinforced O-ring keeps the dildo in place, including during more vigorous movements.

A strap-free harness

Unlike classic harnesses with multiple straps, Scandal is worn like a panty: pull it on, adjust it, and the dildo stays in place thanks to the O-ring. This simplicity gives you complete freedom of movement and better control over the pace during play, making it easy to use, including for a couple's first pegging experience.

The Calexotics brand

Scandal is by Calexotics, a brand founded and led by women (Susan Colvin), with more than ten years of experience in adult toys. I recommend it if you're discovering pegging and looking for a reliable first set.

Sizing and care

This set is available in S/M and L/XL: choose your usual underwear size for a comfortable fit. Use a water-based lubricant with the silicone dildo, as a silicone-based formula could damage the material. The panty is machine washable; clean the dildo separately and on the surface with a suitable sex toy cleaner after each use. Let both components air-dry completely before storing them, to preserve both the fabric and the silicone.

Who it's for, and who it's not for

Scandal is intended for couples who want to explore pegging with a moderate diameter and a harness that's easy to put on. Discuss it together before you begin, take things gradually, and establish a safe word if one of you is trying this activity for the first time. If you're looking for a larger diameter or a harness with separately adjustable straps, consider another strap-on dildo from the collection instead.

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