Epic Phoenix remote-controlled silicone dildo

Phoenix embodies a direct approach to pleasure: a monumental vibrating dildo designed for intense vaginal stimulation. With its generous dimensions and remote-control technology, this model is aimed at those who know what they want and are not intimidated by imposing sizes. I classify this type of product among the options for experienced users, as it requires some familiarity with large sex toys.

Silicone and dimensions: an uncompromising dildo

The material is silicone, which guarantees exceptional durability and ease of cleaning. Unlike porous materials (TPE, TPR), silicone does not retain bacteria and can simply be washed with mild soap and warm water. Phoenix’s dimensions reflect a clear philosophy: take the sensation as far as possible. The insertable length reaches 235 mm (total length 265 mm), while the diameter varies across the dildo’s sections, from 40 mm at the head to 65 mm at the thickest point. The 90 mm-wide base provides a stable, secure grip.

To me, this is a product that creates a genuine feeling of fullness. Its 675 g weight gives it a substantial presence without being overwhelming. For comparison, I classify this dildo in the “monster” category—it is not suitable for beginners, but for those already comfortable with standard-sized sex toys, it is a logical next step.

Remote control and USB charging: technology at the service of pleasure

What sets Phoenix apart from passive dildos is its vibration technology with a wireless remote control. The internal battery recharges via a USB cable—no batteries to replace constantly. The included remote control lets you adjust the vibration intensity and patterns from a distance, opening up possibilities for couples or solo use. The supplier does not specify whether it is waterproof, so I recommend avoiding use in the shower or bath.

Honestly, the remote’s flexibility is a game changer. You can adjust the rhythm without interrupting your pleasure, which is a real convenience compared with dildos operated by a tactile button.

Box contents and essential compatibility information

• 1 Phoenix silicone dildo
• 1 wireless remote control (23A battery included)
• 1 USB charging cable

For use, I recommend a water-based lubricant—this is the only real limitation of silicone, as it is not compatible with silicone lubricants (which can degrade the material). Water-based lubricants (Waterfeel, System Jo H2O) are universally compatible and safe. When used with a partner, a condom is recommended if you share the toy. After each use, cleaning with mild soap and warm water is sufficient—you can also put it in the dishwasher on a gentle cycle if you wish (this is one of the advantages of silicone).

If you are new to large dildos, I suggest consulting our complete guide to choosing your first sex toy—it contains practical advice on gradually increasing size and adapting progressively.

Who it is for and who it is not for

Who it is for: Those who are already comfortable with standard-sized dildos and want to explore larger dimensions. Women who enjoy an intense feeling of fullness and like controlling their pleasure via remote control. Couples looking for a toy to add variety to their intimate experiences. Phoenix is designed for an experienced audience, not beginners.

Who it is not for: Beginners should start with thinner, shorter dildos (7–10 cm, 3–4 cm in diameter). Phoenix is too large for a first experience. If you are looking for a more compact vibrating dildo, I recommend consulting our selection of silicone dildos in various sizes, where you will find more gradual options.

A friend’s advice— Don’t rush to Phoenix just because it looks impressive. Try an intermediate-sized dildo first, then come back to this one when you are ready. Progression is the key to lasting pleasure.