Ohmama Couples Kit Number 7 — Mask, Whip, Gag

Ohmama’s Couples Kit number 7 offers a gradual approach to exploring BDSM as a couple. Honestly, it’s exactly the kind of kit my clients ask me for when they want to try things out without making a major investment: four complementary accessories in a discreet box, perfect for getting started.

Kit contents and materials

The kit contains four items designed for gentle domination and sensory play. The mask blocks vision and intensifies tactile sensations. The flogger provides light to moderate stimulation depending on the pressure applied. The breathable gag promotes safety (breathing slits) while reinforcing the submissive dynamic. The black star pasties add an alluring visual touch. I would classify this type of set as “soft BDSM”—perfect for couples who want to explore without moving on to hardcore practices.

Dimensions and discreet format

Measuring 13 cm in length, 19 cm in height, and 2.5 cm in depth, the box fits easily in a closet or drawer. Total weight: 112 g. That’s what I like about it: a compact format without sacrificing accessory variety. None of the items is bulky, making this kit ideal for couples living in apartments or traveling.

BDSM practices covered

This kit explores three key areas of beginner BDSM: sensory deprivation (mask), light discipline (flogger), and gagging. To learn more about incorporating these practices into your relationship, I recommend reading BDSM Domination: Everything You Need to Know to Get Started—you’ll find advice there for beginning safely and confidently as a couple.

The kit’s accessories make it possible to create a simple scene: one partner gently dominates the other through sensory deprivation and light stimulation. The breathable gag promotes maximum safety (no risk of suffocation). It’s a smart balance between pleasure and caution.

Use and care

Before first use, clean each accessory with lukewarm water and mild soap. The mask, flogger, and gag are easy to wash. Dry them thoroughly before storing them. For play, I recommend using a water-based lubricant if there is intimate contact. After each session, rinse them quickly and store them in a dry place. They have a decent lifespan with regular care.

Who it’s for—and who it isn’t

Ideal for: heterosexual, homosexual, and queer couples who are new to BDSM; partners looking to try dominance/submission without a major commitment; and people who want an all-in-one kit instead of buying items separately. The boxed format eliminates the question, “Where do we start?”

Consider something else if: you’re looking for advanced BDSM (strict bondage, chastity, intense impact play), as this kit is too soft. Instead, I recommend browsing our selection of specialized BDSM accessories for intermediate or advanced levels.

A friend’s advice— Start with an honest conversation with your partner about boundaries and safe words before using it for the first time. This kit is designed around mutual trust, not one-sided surprises.