pjur Back Door relaxing anal spray 20 ml

While we were working from home, Steven and I tested different approaches to prepare calmly for anal penetration—and honestly, a good relaxing spray makes all the difference. I've had this Pjur Back Door in the shop for a long time: it's a must-have for couples who want to explore without apprehension.

Relaxing formula without harsh anesthetics

What I like about this product is its philosophy. Unlike some sprays that use lidocaine or benzocaine (which completely numb the area), Back Door relies on panthenol—an ingredient that naturally makes the tissues more elastic and relaxed. It's a gentler, more gradual approach. Panthenol is also known for its soothing and moisturizing properties. The formula was specifically developed for gay men, but in practice, anyone open to anal penetration can benefit from it.

Simple and effective instructions

Using it is very straightforward. Apply the spray to the anal area, wait 5 minutes to let the panthenol take effect, then add a quality silicone lubricant (compatible with this spray, unlike water-based lubricants, which could dilute the formula). Timing is what matters: don't rush. I always recommend starting with this spray, then giving it time to work before continuing. It creates genuine preparation, not just a cosmetic application.

Compatibility and precautions

Pjur is a recognized leader in anal lubricants—a German brand with rigorous standards. Back Door is part of this premium range. I rank this spray among the best in its category for its quality-to-ingredient ratio. One important thing: it is NOT a total anesthetic. You will feel what is happening, which is precisely the point—you can adjust your pace. If you're looking for true numbness, that's a different product. This one provides gradual relaxation.

Here are a few key points to remember:

• Apply the spray first and wait at least 5 minutes
• Then use a quality silicone lubricant (never water-based lubricant alone)
• 20 ml bottle: around ten applications, depending on the amount used
• Formula without lidocaine or benzocaine: relaxation without complete numbness
• Pjur: German brand with a proven track record in shops for years

Who it's for and who it's not for

Ideal for: Straight or gay couples exploring anal penetration for the first time, people who want gentle and gradual preparation, and those who avoid harsh anesthetics. It's also an excellent addition to consider from our intimate wellness collection if you're looking to prepare for a special evening together.

Less suitable for: People looking for a total anesthetic gel (lidocaine/benzocaine), or those who prefer spontaneous anal penetration without preparation. If you really want complete numbness, I would point you toward other formulas—this spray provides relaxation, not nerve blockage.

A friend-to-friend tip— In 10 years of advising customers in the shop, I've seen couples discover anal penetration with confidence thanks to a good preparation spray. It's a 20-euro investment that can transform apprehension into positive exploration. It's truly worth it.