ToyJoy Just For You discovery kit

At Adopt1Toy, this kit often comes up in questions from people who have never used a BDSM accessory before. The name “starter kit” is well deserved: you have everything you need to try light restraint, stimulation, and role-play without having to decide in advance what you will enjoy. It is a format I recommend for an introductory evening together, without performance pressure.

The 10 pieces in the starter kit

The kit contains handcuffs, a penis sleeve, a vibrating egg, nipple clamps, a vibrator, an anal plug, a set of Ben Wa balls, a vibrating penis ring, a mask, and a whip. The supplier states that the materials include plastic, silicone, and metal without specifying which piece uses which material—I’m telling you clearly rather than guessing for you.

How the vibrator and vibrating egg work

The vibrator works with 3 AAA batteries that you need to provide yourself; they are not included in the box. The vibrating egg and vibrating penis ring use the same basic mechanism. The supplier does not provide either the number of modes or a quantified intensity level, so I cannot promise you more than what I actually know.

Consent, safety, and care

Before opening the box together, agree on a clear safeword and on what each of you does or does not want to try that evening. With the handcuffs, slide a finger under the metal to check that it is not compressing the wrist, and never leave the restrained person alone in the room. The whip and mask can be cleaned dry or with a slightly damp cloth; silicone and plastic pieces should be washed with warm, soapy water after each use.

Who this starter kit is for

This starter kit is right for you if you are new to BDSM and want to try several activities before figuring out what you really enjoy. If you already practice regularly and are looking for a specific, more advanced accessory, I recommend my handcuffs and restraint accessories or another BDSM set focused more specifically on a single activity.

Friendly advice— Try each accessory separately at first rather than using everything in the same evening, so you can figure out together what you really enjoy.