ToyJoy BDSM beginner's kit with 6 accessories for couples

Before using this one, you need to understand one thing: everyone carries both a dominant side and a submissive side within them. In BDSM practice, one of these two facets generally takes the lead. This kit exists specifically to clarify that dynamic between you and your partner—making the division of roles easier to explore, more explicit, and frankly more intense.

Kit composition and materials

I classify this kit among beginner sets because it covers the main BDSM categories without overloading you. It combines several materials: silicone for the blindfold (comfortable and easy to clean), metal for the clamps (a cool sensation and controllable pressure), and fabric for the collar and natural cotton rope (breathable and less harsh than synthetic materials). The additional clamp offers flexibility—one for the nipples, the other for other areas. Honestly, it’s a pragmatic approach: no unnecessary gadgets, just the basics that work.

Included accessories and their uses

• Sensory blindfold — blocks your vision and intensifies your other senses (touch and sound)
• Nipple clamps (×2) — pinching stimulation, adjustable according to the desired intensity
• Collar — a marker of submission and a symbol of the power dynamic
• Flogger — light discipline and a controlled contact sensation
• Cotton rope — gentle bondage, easy-to-undo knots, ideal for beginners

Each item can be used on its own or combined according to your dynamic that day. What I notice in the shop is that beginners appreciate this variety: it lets them try different sensations without feeling guilty about “investing too much.”

Setting the scene and exploring BDSM

To get started properly, I recommend reading BDSM Dominance: Everything You Need to Know to Get Started—it covers the essential basics of consent and safewords. With this kit, you have a range of tools for exploring dominance/submission, light bondage, and sensory stimulation. Start with one piece at a time, communicate about what feels good, and adjust the intensity. The blindfold can be used with the flogger (visual deprivation plus tactile sensation), while the rope can hold the wrists as the clamps are used. The combinations are endless.

Cleaning and care

After each use, wash every accessory with warm, soapy water. The silicone blindfold tolerates mild soap well. The metal clamps can be rinsed and dried quickly. The cotton rope must dry completely before storage (to prevent mold). Store everything in a dry place away from direct light. If you use lubricant, make sure it is compatible (water-based lubricant is recommended for this entire kit). Check out our sex toy cleaner range for optimal care.

Who it’s for—and who it isn’t

Ideal for: Straight or same-sex couples discovering BDSM, people curious about dominance/submission, and beginners with no prior bondage experience. The value for money makes it easy to try without a major investment. No electronics means zero technical stress—just pure sensations.

Consider something else if: You’re looking for extreme bondage or heavy BDSM (this kit is truly soft). If you have allergies to latex or synthetic materials, some pieces could cause problems—in that case, explore our BDSM accessories collection made from hypoallergenic materials. If you already practice at an advanced level, this kit will be too basic.

Friendly advice— Start with a short scene (15–20 minutes), test each accessory individually, and above all establish a safeword BEFORE you begin. BDSM is 90% communication and 10% accessories.