ToyJoy sexual pleasure kit

I recommend this Toy Joy set when you want to try several BDSM practices without investing in ten separate products. Each piece caters to a different desire: gentle restraint with the handcuffs, light discipline with the whip, stimulation with the vibrator or ben wa balls. It’s a format I like to recommend for a first evening together centered around role-play.

What this set contains

In the box, you’ll find handcuffs, a penis sleeve, a vibrating egg, nipple clamps, a battery-powered vibrator, an anal plug, a set of ben wa balls, a vibrating penis ring, a mask, and a whip. The pieces combine silicone, plastic, and metal depending on the item — to be completely honest, the supplier does not detail the material of each individual piece, so I’m remaining cautious on this specific point.

How the kit’s vibrator works

The set’s vibrator runs on 3 AAA batteries, not included with the kit — remember to have them ready before your first use. I can’t tell you the number of modes or give a specific intensity level because the supplier does not provide those details: I’d rather tell you that than make up a number. The vibrating egg and vibrating penis ring work on the same simple principle and are better suited to occasional use than intensive use.

Use, safety, and care

As with any play involving handcuffs, a whip, or nipple clamps, I recommend agreeing on a safeword with your partner before you begin, and checking regularly that the handcuffs are not too tight so they do not interfere with blood circulation in the wrists. Never leave a restrained person alone, even for a few moments. Clean the silicone and plastic pieces with lukewarm water and mild soap after each use, dry them completely before storing them in the box, and check the condition of the whip and mask before each new use.

Who this set is for (and who it isn’t for)

This set is suitable if you want to discover several BDSM practices at once — light restraint, gentle discipline, vaginal or anal stimulation — without yet knowing exactly what you enjoy. It’s not the right choice if you’re looking for a single, highly refined accessory for one specific practice: in that case, I’d instead point you toward a whip or handcuffs sold separately, which offer better quality for that particular purpose. Find more ideas in my BDSM sets collection and in my handcuffs and restraint accessories.

Friendly advice — Start slowly with one or two pieces from the set before trying everything in a single evening, giving yourselves time to find out what you both really enjoy.