Get Real purple lace strap-on harness with silicone rings

This Get Real harness is designed for pegging as a couple. I classify it among the accessible options for couples discovering this practice, particularly thanks to its flexible sizing and basic comfort. The purple lace adds a visual element without being too intimidating for beginners.

The harness is built around adjustable straps that fit most body types. The padded front cushion prevents pressure points during extended sessions — it’s a detail I particularly appreciate in retail, because your customers are less likely to come back and complain about discomfort. The three silicone rings (3.5 cm, 4.5 cm, and 5 cm) let you easily switch dildos according to your preferences or those of your partner.

Harness Material and Care

The harness is made of silicone for the ring structure and lace for the visible section. Between us, this combination works well: the lace adds style, while the silicone rings provide decent durability and hygiene. Simply clean it with lukewarm water and mild soap after each use. The non-porous silicone rings dry quickly.

Dimensions and Compatible Sizes

The harness weighs 198 g and fits most hip sizes thanks to its adjustable straps. I find this adjustment system intuitive — you don’t need a manual to understand how to adjust it. The three rings let you choose the diameter that suits your favorite dildo:

• Small ring: 3.5 cm (slim dildos or beginner-friendly sizes)
• Medium ring: 4.5 cm (standard size, the most common)
• Large ring: 5 cm (thicker dildos or XXL sizes)
• Inner pocket for an optional vibrating bullet
• Padded front cushion for extended comfort

Couples Use and Compatibility

This harness is designed for pegging — a practice in which the person wearing the harness penetrates their partner with a dildo. I always recommend starting with our beginner strap-on dildos to understand positioning and sensations before exploring larger sizes. One tip I’ve seen used in-store: slip a vibrating bullet into the inner pocket to create additional clitoral stimulation during sex — it’s a detail some couples love.

Lubricant compatibility: use only water-based lubricant (never silicone-based lubricant or oil, as they degrade silicone). Penetration takes place with your favorite dildo inserted into the appropriate ring. For more advice on this practice, see our complete beginner’s guide to strap-on dildos.

Who It’s For and Who It Isn’t

Who it’s for: Heterosexual or same-sex couples discovering pegging and looking for an accessible harness with flexible sizing. People who like lace and the color purple. Those who want to try adding a vibrating bullet for an extra dimension. A standard size that suits most body types.

Who it isn’t for: If you’re looking for a minimalist or discreet harness, the purple lace is not the most subtle option. If you have a very petite or very generous build, I recommend checking the adjustment points before buying. If you want a 100% passive harness (without a vibrating option), this one can be used that way, but you won’t get the full benefit of the pocket. Instead, explore our classic silicone dildos if you’re only looking for penetration without accessories.

A friend’s advice — Take the time to adjust the straps before first use. A properly adjusted harness is the difference between a comfortable evening and a frustrating one. Start with the 4.5 cm ring if you’re unsure; it’s the most versatile.