Get Real black strap-on harness with silicone rings

This Get Real harness offers a practical approach to pegging: adjustable straps that fit most body types, a padded front cushion for extended comfort, and, above all, three silicone rings with different diameters (3.5 cm, 4.5 cm, and 5 cm) to accommodate your existing dildos. You don’t have to buy a specific dildo—you can use what you already own.

Silicone material and harness care

The entire harness is made of silicone, which means it’s easy to clean with warm water and mild soap after each use. Silicone doesn’t retain odors and holds up well to everyday wear. The silicone rings are easy to wash and dry quickly. I recommend using a specialized sex toy cleaner if you have one—it extends the materials’ lifespan—but it isn’t required.

Dimensions, comfort, and adjustability

Total weight: 368 g (lightweight to wear, with no feeling of extra bulk). The adjustable straps are key: they let you fit the harness to your body without excessive compression. The padded front cushion protects the sensitive area during penetration of the receiving partner. The 3.5 to 5 cm rings cover most standard dildo diameters currently available.

Couples’ use and optional vibrating feature

The harness is designed for pegging (vaginal or anal penetration with a strap-on dildo). You can place a vibrating bullet in the inner pocket to add extra stimulation for the person wearing the harness—it’s a detail that’s often overlooked but appreciated. Find our complete advice in our guide Beginner’s guide to strap-on dildos: everything you need to know to get started with confidence.

Compatibility and accessories

Compatible with any standard dildo whose diameter matches one of the three included rings. I recommend testing the fit beforehand—slide your dildo into the chosen ring and check that it doesn’t move excessively. If you’re looking for a silicone dildo to get started, you’ll find options suited to pegging. Water-based lubricant is required; a condom is recommended if the dildo is shared.

Who it’s for and who it isn’t for

Ideal for: couples curious about pegging, people looking for an adjustable and comfortable harness to get started, and those who already own dildos and want a good introductory harness. The padded cushion and the versatility of the three rings make it accessible.

Consider something else if: you’re looking for a harness for an electronic sex toy (vibrating)—this model is passive. Or if you need a very compact or very large size (the adjustable straps cover a standard range but not the extremes). In that case, explore our complete strap-on dildo collection for other options.

A tip from a friend— Before first use, check that the rings are securely attached and that the straps slide smoothly. Take the time to adjust everything beforehand, not in the heat of the moment—it makes all the difference for comfort.