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Welcome to the Adopt1Toy magazine.
With ten years of experience in the intimate wellness industry, I’ve helped thousands of people with their questions and discoveries. Here, I share practical advice on pleasure, sexuality, BDSM, and well-being—written openly by someone who truly knows these subjects.

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Sexuality, pleasure & sex toys

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Beginner’s Strap-On Dildo Guide: Which One to Choose and How to Get Started Properly

|Alicia Deroussen
Strap-ons intrigue, scare, and tempt you—often all three at once. I’ve watched hundreds of customers hesitate in front of this section since I opened Adopt1Toy. Neoprene harness or integrated panties?...
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Clitoral vibrator guide: everything you need to know to choose the right one

|Alicia Deroussen
Classic vibration or pulsed air? Medical-grade silicone, battery life, waterproofing, a rumbly or buzzy motor… I break down all the criteria to help you choose the clitoral vibrator that truly...
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Beginner’s Guide to Anal Plugs: Everything You Need to Know Before Trying One

|Alicia Deroussen
Wondering about anal plugs before taking the plunge? I’ll explain everything from my shop: how to choose the right size, which material to prefer, how to use lubricant correctly, and...
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Lingerie, your weapon of seduction: a user guide

|Alicia Deroussen
Seductive lingerie primarily affects you—your posture, confidence, and desire. Alicia, founder of Adopt1Toy, breaks down the cuts, fabrics, and accessories to help you choose sexy lingerie that truly reflects you,...
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Womanizer vs Lelo: Complete Comparison of the Best Premium Sex Toy Brands

|Alicia Deroussen
Womanizer relies on Pleasure Air—pulsations without direct contact. Lelo focuses on aesthetics and a wide range. After eight years of selling both in-store, I’ve thoroughly compared them: technologies, sensations, durability,...
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Fleshlight vs Kiiroo: complete comparison of the best connected and realistic masturbators

|Alicia Deroussen
Fleshlight or Kiiroo? These two brands occupy very different niches. I compare Superskin textures, FeelConnect connectivity, care, and user profiles to help you choose confidently—whether you’re on your own or...
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Erotic games for couples: the guide that puts things into action

|Alicia Deroussen
Want to spice up your routine without giving a big speech? Erotic games for couples are just what you need: a playful framework that breaks down inhibitions, reignites curiosity, and...
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Erotic Massage Oil: Everything You’re (Probably) Doing Wrong

|Alicia Deroussen
An erotic massage oil is much more than a scented base oil. Temperature, compatibility with sex toys, quantity, timing, ingredients—there are about ten things most people get wrong without realizing...
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History of Sex Toys: From Their Origins to Today

|Alicia Deroussen
It is often believed that sex toys are a modern invention, emerging in the 1960s or with online commerce. That’s false—and fascinating. I’m delving into 30,000 years of pleasure objects:...
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Vibrating egg: everything you need to know before buying

|Alicia Deroussen
The vibrating egg is one of the most underrated sex toys on the market. This comprehensive guide by Alicia, founder of Adopt1Toy, helps you choose the right model based on...
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Beginner’s Strap-On Dildo Guide: Which One to Choose and How to Get Started Properly

|Alicia Deroussen
Strap-ons intrigue, scare, and tempt you—often all three at once. I’ve watched hundreds of customers hesitate in front of this section since I opened Adopt1Toy. Neoprene harness or integrated panties?...
Sexuality, pleasure & sex toys

Intimate Well-Being, Health & Relationships

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What is gooning? What you don't (yet) know about this practice

Gooning refers to a state of light trance reached during prolonged sexual stimulation. Not an orgasm, not an addiction - just a deep cognitive letting go that many people have...
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Poppers: effects, risks, and why they aren't sold at Adopt1Toy

Poppers fascinate, raise questions, and regularly come up at the counter. In this article, I explain what it actually does in the body, the risks that are too often downplayed...
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Talking to your partner about your fantasies: common misconceptions debunked

Talking about your fantasies with your partner is one of the couple’s most dreaded conversations—and one of the most liberating. Alicia Deroussen debunks six persistent misconceptions, draws on concrete data,...
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Luxuria Love Room in Le Cannet: my review of this Love Room near Cannes

I discovered Luxuria Love Room in Le Cannet, near Cannes: a private jacuzzi, hammam, sensory shower, and sensual atmosphere. Here’s my review and the amenities to know about before booking.
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Loveroom: Complete Guide to a Successful Night

Is a love room just a hotel with a hot tub? Not really. For years, I’ve watched couples leave disappointed—and others still talk about it months later. The difference isn’t...
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The biggest insecurity for men and women: understanding, accepting, and thriving

People rarely talk about them, but almost everyone carries them: those little inner voices whispering that we’re not tall enough, thin enough, big enough, or good enough. In this article,...
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My wife never initiates: mismatched desire and how to reconnect with intimacy

There is a very particular kind of pain in desiring someone who no longer seems to desire you in return. No breakup, no argument—just the physical silence that settles in....
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PMS and Libido: Understanding Your Cycle to Improve Your Sex Life

PMS disrupts the libido of 30% to 80% of menstruating people—yet we hardly ever talk about it from the perspective of pleasure. Alicia breaks down what really happens during the...
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Edging: the edge technique for orgasms that redefine everything

Edging means bringing yourself right to the brink of orgasm, then backing off—several times in a row—before finally letting yourself go over the edge. The result: a much more intense...
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Doggy style: all the variations you haven’t tried yet

Doggy style is the most widely practiced sex position in the world—and yet most people know only the basic version. In this article, I review all the variations that change...
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What is gooning? What you don't (yet) know about this practice

Gooning refers to a state of light trance reached during prolonged sexual stimulation. Not an orgasm, not an addiction - just a deep cognitive letting go that many people have...

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